The Local Watering Hole—Part 2

Our local watering hole has opened a new chapter, one that began with fire. In what seemed like minutes, our memories, hopes, conversations, and dreams went up in flames. The community we built seemed on the verge of collapse, just like the bar’s roof.

You don’t realize the value of your local watering hole and all it means until it’s gone. We missed everyone, from the servers to the regulars to the characters who strolled in once in awhile. We called ourselves refuges without our anchor to the sense of place and each other.

Wine Meets the Local Watering Hole

Another casualty was the loss of our weekly wine tastings. I haven’t added another entry to my tasting notebook since then. The last bottle we shared at the local watering hole was a Southern Rhône GSM. The entry is incomplete, presumably because we were so engrossed in the experience.

Wine has a way of doing that.

The bar provided the setting, and the wine conjured the magic. It brought our non-wine-drinking friends together for a glass. Those are times I treasure, with all of us sharing the moment.

Ironically, the setting wasn’t ideal from a wine perspective. The glasses were too small and sometimes in need of a good wipe. I tried my best to get the temperature right and do a proper wine service.

None of those little things mattered or marred the moment. The wine beckoned us all like a siren to enjoy the experience.

Finding a New Home

The fire took future moments away but not the memories. Our local watering hole is months or years from reopening, if it does indeed come to pass. The time since its occurrence has reinforced our takes on our community, such as the fundraisers given by local businesses to support the displaced employees.

That’s why we live in a small town.

Then, there are the times we recognize a fellow refugee at another establishment. We share a few pleasantries and enjoy knowing they are still there.

Wine’s place in our life has shifted from the local watering hole to home. We savor wine in proper glasses and often pair it with a meal. It’s a different experience without the tasting notes or the craic. The wine takes center stage.

But something’s missing.

Our small group sharing the wine and talking about it took it to the next level. However, wine needs company. It’s not as if we enjoy it less. Wine thrives on community and sharing. That’s what we miss.

The next chapter for our local watering hole has yet to be written. We can only hope wine is a part of the story once again, bringing us together along with the other refuges.

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The Importance of the Local Watering Hole

We are fortunate to have a local watering hole, which, ironically, some refer to as “The Hole.” We call them bars. Ireland calls them pubs, short for public house. It hadn’t occurred to me how lucky we are until I read an article about the decline of the Irish pub across the pond.

The figures are sobering, with numbers plummeting since 2005. One must understand that a pub isn’t just a place to get a pint or a glass of wine. It’s where you can enjoy good craic or the fun atmosphere you can only find in a place where you know most everyone’s name—or story.

My Local Watering Hole

The article got me thinking about our local watering hole and its regulars. We’ve been going there for 10 or more years. Many patrons are locals, born and raised in town. I thought of the friends we’ve made and lost through the years, the mini-dramas, and passings.

We are transplants to the Land of 10,000 Lakes, far from our families. Our local watering hole is our second family. They know more about my day-to-day life than my sisters. We are also privy to the many stories the patrons wear, including the not-so-proud moments that come and go with each wave of scandal.

The bar is a family-run establishment. Of course, part of the craic includes bitching about the owners when changes, i.e., price increases, occur. We moan about smaller portion sizes and added surcharges while cheering on the Vikings.

We also enjoy our weekly wine tastings, where we share a bottle and wax poetic on its virtues and earthiness. Wine brought some of us together and is part of the glue that keeps us coming back for another glass. These are good times we all treasure. I revel in being a part of a ritual that brought humans together for thousands of years. We’re living it.

I asked my nephew, who lives in Chicago, if he had a local watering hole. Alas, he does not. There are places they go to often, but not the ones where you know all the servers’ names and they know your drink order. We are in on their stories, too, with bigger cash tips when someone gets married, buys a new house, or has a baby. We’ve also cried together when we’ve lost a mutual friend from the bar.

Becoming a Local Tradition

Our watering hole is in a town with a city council that recognizes its unique value. That’s why we regulars get fired up when another festival rolls around, inviting more out-of-towners to visit that “cute dive bar.” It’s our watering hole, damnit!

Thinking back to the Irish pubs, I feel sure some of these same scenarios play out, with different names and private jokes. I can understand the fear of losing these places and what they bring to a community. A place doesn’t always plan to be the local hangout. Sometimes, the stars align, and it just happens, as it did for us at our watering hole.

The next time we share a bottle of wine, I’ll propose a toast to our local watering hole and our second families.

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